Love affair, is seems to be one of the most important lessons we have to take this course in our college life. Everyone expects that he or she may run into somebody in all kinds of conditions and have an exciting or romantic development. However, some people don’t go alone with that. They like to be single and also enjoy the life in single. To me, I am person who like to be single and refuse the love in relationship. In other words, I am bachelorism.
Most
of my friends are in relationship, and they are very loyal to their lovers. They
seem to be very happy when they fall in love with each other. Nevertheless,
that makes me confuse and feel disgusted. Kate, my best friend for over ten
years, was falling in love with her boyfriend last year. We always hang out
with each other on weekend and chat in café during free time. One day, we were
chatting in café near my school at Saturday. Originally it must be very joyful,
but I was not happy when something happened after her phone rang. I knew the
man she was talking on the phone was her boyfriend, and Kate was not happy. After
few minutes, she started getting angry and growling to the phone. Finally she
switched off her phone and cried. I was shocked and comforted her. That was so
embarrassing to me that other people sat near us must think we had an argument.
I hoped there was a hole I could hide at that time.
She
revealed that they had a fight and hadn’t got along together for these days. Later,
she started complaining about her boyfriend. “Why he always asks me where I am,
who is being with me and why I haven’t given him a phone call? Do you know he
require me that I have to give him a phone call every one hour? That’s so exaggerative.”
In addition, she said they had a fight because she was being with a male---that’s
me. To my surprise, she mentioned that her boyfriend had borrowed money from
her so many times and never given back. At first she just thought it was
natural and showed the honor to her boyfriend, but she found that something was
wrong. Plus, she got tired of his strong possessiveness and would like to break
with him. However, she didn’t know how to say to him and there were a lot of
troubles between them to solve.
Although
I didn’t know what happened to them after that day, I just knew I had bad
feeling about love affair. I always thought falling in love with someone was a
trouble thing. There were so many problems happened on my friends, and these
finally lead to unnecessary arguments and complaints. Moreover, I love freedom
to do anything as well as living unrestrainedly, so I hate to be asked that I
have to report my location for someone on time. That makes me feel I am a
prisoner. In addition, I love myself than others so that I always think about
myself, and I have plans about my single future, such as having a dream job to
make a lot of money and buying many things I want, purchasing a single
apartment and keeping a dog to accompany with me. Now, I have been single for
22 years and joyful to be bachelorism. I keep my mind as well as belief at all
times. I am also happy as same as those people are in realationship.
